The Action

How do you feel when you hurt someone? Do you feel remorse, pain... antagonistic happiness?(I hope not.) I feel remorse. I always feel terrible if I am mean to someone. Trust me though, I try to be nice to everyone and everything. Usually, the only time I am mean to anyone is if I have a lost all patience. My other question is how do you know if you have hurt someone. Like, I've been arguing before and I have accidentally said something mean. I always have tried to attune myself to the expression of others when arguing in case I insult someone. If I find I insult someone though, I usually don't do anything to comfort them until I'm ready to say sorry. It's a weakness in my character, I know.